Jun 05

Many people do not realize that attitude is really everything in online dating. You want to be sure that you attract the right people and that you let them know what you are all about. It can be difficult to think of things to say about yourself without seeming like you are trying too hard or are not being true to who you really are. Here are a few things to keep in mind on your attitude.

Be Yourself

It is so important that you don’t try to be anybody but yourself. Just because you are online you may find yourself wanting to try to change a few things about yourself. Just keep in mind that if you hit it off with another person that you are eventually going to need to come clean or you will be living a lie. Don’t try to make yourself out to be somebody different.

Good Representation

It is a good idea to make sure that your profile is a good representation of who you really are. If you are fun and bubbly, then make sure that you have pictures that show that as well as your quick bio that you write about yourself. However, if you are sarcastic and not so bubbly, then don’t try to make yourself out to be that way on your site.

Getting the Right Attention

You want to be able to attract the people that you are attracted to. The best way to do this is to be yourself and you’re going to be able to find some people that find you for who you really are irresistible.

May 13

When you are getting started in online dating there are a few things that you will need to keep in mind. There are a lot of different dating sites out there and a lot of other people on these sites. This means that you will have to not only be able to find the perfect site but be able to stand out among all the other people on these sites so that you can find somebody.

Choosing a Site

Choosing a site can be difficult at first. It’s overwhelming because there are so many different sites to choose from. You will need to think about what type of site you want to go with. There are free sites and ones that you have to pay to use. There are also sites that are specific for people of a certain age, race or sexual orientation. Try to narrow down your preferences and go from there.

Making a Profile

When you are making a profile you need to be sure that you are able to stand out while still being yourself. Choose a picture that is flattering that is a good representation of what you actually look like currently. Make your ‘about me’ section something fun and different while still being true to what you want to say about yourself.

You’re Expectations

It is important that you go in knowing what it is that you are looking for on these sites. There will be a lot of different people looking for different things so knowing what you want is paramount.

Mar 30

There are certain guidelines that you will have to follow when you are in an online relationship. You will want to be sure that you are able to have a good and healthy relationship with this person regardless of if you are dating online or if you see each other every day. Here are a few of the things that will help you to have a good online relationship.

Have Boundaries

Boundaries are important in an online relationship. You will need to make sure that you and your partner talk about what is okay to do with other people and what is not. You may think that it is okay to see other people and they may not. Make sure that the two of you are honest about what you are comfortable with the other person doing.

Make Plans

It is a good idea for you to talk about when and if you will be meeting each other. This is something that may be difficult if you live very far away from each other. However, if you want your relationship to progress you will eventually have to make plans to meet up in person. It is important that you discuss this regularly.

Exclusivity

Decide whether or not you want your friends and family to know about this other person. Sometimes, when you date online you will be able to give yourself and your partner the ability to have some privacy in the relationship. Discuss how exclusive you want to be with each other before you tell anybody.